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Kili, take my hand!
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/48b4c9de407d4b60ba23cff2f8f5ac82/tumblr_mmx6rofxBq1s6fl47o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c16aab0ca5c4d2ed7f75527892524931/tumblr_mmx6rofxBq1s6fl47o2_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/0901d1d2eff29222d7e3d65fb6cc4a6d/tumblr_mmx6rofxBq1s6fl47o3_r1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/fc23447a4b84aaf242e3be00e8d5d50e/tumblr_mmx6rofxBq1s6fl47o4_r1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kili, take my hand!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50975538658</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50975538658</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 00:14:46 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>evocates:

Höllental by Clickpix on Flickr.
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6763dcfc3b8cbe53da103362da999e2c/tumblr_mmpvqkVZ3x1rkwf2ro1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://evocates.tumblr.com/post/50316471942/hollental-by-clickpix-on-flickr" target="_blank"&gt;evocates&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/clickpix_eu/6067183898/" title="Höllental" target="_blank"&gt;Höllental&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/clickpix_eu/" target="_blank"&gt;Clickpix&lt;/a&gt; on Flickr.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50895066904</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50895066904</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:33:45 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lxytpjOSoS1qb9ckeo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894414289</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894414289</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:11:58 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6a4ec2d212555d32145811c3a6f1ddac/tumblr_mn2ydcQ5xD1qitpt4o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894325497</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894325497</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:09:02 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e5b71fda38fc90dae5803f439226df8b/tumblr_mfteo75F5F1s20qc3o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894265114</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894265114</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:07:01 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>buck-barnes:

i wish there was a non-assholeish way to say “our friendship has run it’s course, you...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://buck-barnes.tumblr.com/post/44752810062/i-wish-there-was-a-non-assholeish-way-to-say-our" target="_blank"&gt;buck-barnes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i wish there was a non-assholeish way to say “our friendship has run it’s course, you make me uncomfortable with your feelings and a lot of shit you do pisses me off bye”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894235891</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894235891</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:06:04 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Me: *sits in towel for 6 months after showering*</title><description>Me: *sits in towel for 6 months after showering*</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894199129</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894199129</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:04:50 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>reggetti:

This little cutie was such a good model for me!
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/52011f535ca1f55677d50776c96e950b/tumblr_mhmuin18QL1r1ivtio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://reggetti.tumblr.com/post/42170845655/this-little-cutie-was-such-a-good-model-for-me" target="_blank"&gt;reggetti&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This little cutie was such a good model for me!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894185802</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894185802</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:04:23 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/334d3e37d5d1184ef31765a6bfbaefd8/tumblr_mmuivjZNot1qigj88o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894164214</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894164214</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:03:42 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6xoshK7Qt1qivx8no1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894155617</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894155617</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:03:24 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>audrey&lt;3</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8419acc63205a8dcc5ed7ff29780527f/tumblr_mmr5wkYXNu1rr7xudo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;audrey&lt;3&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894145637</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894145637</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:03:04 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>We always accept criticism of our feminist movement. It helps strengthen it as a whole and makes us better. The thing is when I see such hateful and sexist language being used to attack feminism it makes me think antifeminists are misogynistic. If you aren't misogynistic then you need to prove otherwise because feminism is at its heart about helping women.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thefourthwavebegins.tumblr.com/post/50886579762/we-always-accept-criticism-of-our-feminist-movement-it" target="_blank"&gt;thefourthwavebegins&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/5dfa43203bdd67462513c3ad75dbe0ec/tumblr_inline_mn2zcl3vrv1qz4rgp.gif"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894101073</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894101073</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:01:38 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>impurely:

don’t ask me questions about sex I’m having a mental breakdown
</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://impurely.tumblr.com/post/50890923598" target="_blank"&gt;impurely&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;don’t ask me questions about sex I’m having a mental breakdown&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894047782</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894047782</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:00:12 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1d1f256524079049db38a70c54aa16b7/tumblr_mld8nwxJmq1qdzcp1o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894032618</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50894032618</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 00:59:41 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"As a trans woman, not many things give me a headache the way the entire concept of passing does...."</title><description>“As a trans woman, not many things give me a headache the way the entire concept of passing does. Passing is the idea that if a trans woman (or any person who is presenting as a woman) looks, dresses and acts a certain way, people won’t be able to tell they are anything other than a completely “normal” woman. If you look at online trans communities or forums, you’ll find tons of tips on how to pass better – everything from hair removal tips to workouts to how to walk and sit more femininely.&lt;br/&gt;
All of this presupposes that there is only one right way to look like and be a woman. And it’s infuriating. On the one hand, whenever I go out in public or post pictures online, a part of me is deathly afraid that I’ll be insulted or worse. I desperately want to be accepted as the woman I am. On the other hand, I hate that in order to feel safe, I’m expected to fit into the very narrow box that is labeled “woman.” Tips on how to pass always seem to say that you should avoid building muscle mass and avoid wearing clothes and makeup that are too costumey, that you should try to hide your shoulders and soften your features. Trans women are often told that if we want to pass, we have to try our hardest to be petite, soft, have just the right amount of femininity, and not stand out too much. But what if I want to be a different kind of woman? What if I want to look like Grace Jones or Kate Moennig? What if I want to look like Beth Ditto or Dolly Parton? They’re all cis women; don’t they pass?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Meyllen Djneres (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://muffinsandcouture.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;muffinsandcouture&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The moral of “passing” discussions always seems to be:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you get bashed it will be your fault.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://charthebutcher.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;charthebutcher&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Do you even know how badly I’ve been needing to hear exactly these words for the past few months now?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://sixtyforty.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;sixtyforty&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;*slow clap——&gt; standing ovation* yes! Yes yes!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://boyqueen.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;boyqueen&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;omg when i started transitioning Kate Moennig was legit my goal&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dizzzyrichardpig.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;dizzzyrichardpig&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i just need this on my blog again&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://boyqueen.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"&gt;boyqueen&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893991290</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893991290</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 00:58:21 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/043771b02a4faea420728ba7a0b1af89/tumblr_mlz8igb2Nr1ql2603o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893950217</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893950217</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 00:57:03 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8c69a75a5d96fdfe27fddbe340e0e110/tumblr_mlgktnwsBv1ril76to1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893937657</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893937657</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 00:56:40 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>angelicpity:

My fetishes include men giving me large sums of money and then never, ever talking to...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://angelicpity.tumblr.com/post/49485465553/my-fetishes-include-men-giving-me-large-sums-of" target="_blank"&gt;angelicpity&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My fetishes include men giving me large sums of money and then never, ever talking to me again&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893869445</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893869445</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 00:54:30 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>castielhasthephoneb0x:

i can nt breath this old man who has like the biggest onion ever is so pr ou...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://castielhasthephoneb0x.tumblr.com/post/49721350509/i-can-nt-breath-this-old-man-who-has-like-the" target="_blank"&gt;castielhasthephoneb0x&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i can nt breath this old man who has like the biggest onion ever is so pr ou d of it &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/b5d98aecacde9e015bc96916ea2fa3b3/tumblr_inline_mmci8wqjHO1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/5f978b9644a7774c189078a1831d6a5a/tumblr_inline_mmci8yI1Gk1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/d4a06ad522e006c53cdda31e3902a426/tumblr_inline_mmci91dcSd1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/93b38779f1bcb888deee37b920b5d92a/tumblr_inline_mmci93MAYw1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;LOOK HOW HAPPY HIS ONION MAKES HIM&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893849014</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50893849014</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 00:53:50 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/68c57f2a9eefc1caa3b2bc2e52d08d45/tumblr_mg7w04bCKB1rwc7tko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50866827628</link><guid>http://uglyandgay.tumblr.com/post/50866827628</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 17:35:36 -0700</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
